Friday, January 9, 2009

FFF:Cold



This picture is from just before Christmas when we went to Wildlights at the zoo.It was pretty cold. Sometimes I wonder why we do it??

Wednesday, January 7, 2009

It seems lately I have been reminicent when it comes to Collin. I'm not sure why. Maybe it is because he is turning 2 soon and it seems like he's not my little helpless baby anymore. Everytime I look at him he seems so big. When I check on him at night he takes up so much more space in his crib. When I change his diaper he barely fits on the changing table. In a way it makes me really sad but in other ways it makes me happy because I see all of the new things he is learning. It seems all along he has been learning new things everyday but for some reason it's like an explosion all of the sudden. I love that he is able to express himself and I really love that he is very affectionate and loving. It pulls at my heart everytime that I hear "I love you my mama". He calls us "my mama" and "my daddy" most of the time. Otherwise, he just yells "MMMAAAA" at the top of his lungs!

A friend at work makes calendars from pictures that you give her. Yesterday, we got our calendar. When I looked at it I almost started to cry. I kept telling myself-"self, you have NEVER cried at work-DON'T START NOW"!! That's the only reason I didn't! She said she could tell from the pictures that Collin looks so happy and safe and loved-that made me so happy. I hope that he always feels that he is surrounded by people that love him more than anything.I always worry that someday he will have "issues" or there will be a time when he will have questions about where he came from and why he was adopted and I guess I just realized how unprepared I really am to answer those questions. To me, he has always been here and he has always been mine. His story is an amazing journey that we travelled together. I hope when he is older that he can comprehend how wonderful it was and not see it as a bad thing because there was nothing bad about it. It has changed my life forever. Because of him I have learned to put someone before myself. I would do anything for him. I want him to have everything in life and to grow to be a good person. I hope I am doing the right things to give him the tools to become a good person. You don't want to spoil them too much or make them think they are better than everyone because mom and dad think they are the greatest. At the same time you want them to know mom and dad think they are the greatest-LOL! This parenting thing is a lot of pressure. If you mess up it's a pretty big deal.

I literally could spend hours just watching him. I had all kinds of things to get accomplished today and I got started but was sidetracked by Collin jumping off the bottom step so I got the video camera out. Then, he wanted to show off for the camera so he climbed to the top of the steps and came down facing forward and standing up. He always turns aroung and slides down on his belly. He would climb down to the bottom step and then jump off. He did it about a hundred more times and I didn't miss one of them!It's like everything he does is amazing and the best ever. I'm almost positive I am becoming one of those annoying mom's whose kid is the best and can do no wrong. Poor Collin...scarred for life by his crazy mother!

Wordless Wednesday-and it's really Wednesday!

Friday, January 2, 2009

New Years Festivities

New Years Eve we went to my parents for pork and sauerkraut and then got home at about 10pm. We put Collin to bed and went out to sit in the hot tub for a while. We jumped out of the hot tub just in time to go hop in bed and watch the ball drop. That's my kind of New Years Eve...it was very nice being home and having our family together. Cuddling on the new microfiber sheets we got for Christmas was pretty nice too!!

The kids were absolutely insane at my parents house. Collin pulled all of the plastic containers out of the cabinet and climbed in. Of course, Brylie had to get in too. Then she decided to wear the Lock&Locks on her feet. And finally they settled down a bit...Collin and Kahlen kicking back with Nana's special drink.





For New Years Day we went to our friends Scott and Lindsay's house to watch football. Collin had a great time wresting around with their daughter Abby. He has obviously been paying attention to his father's lessons on grappling! I realized that I don't think Collin plays with any boys-all of his playmates are girls-we will have to work on that!!









Oh! Am I going to have to keep my eyes on this boy!?!?!Somebody call Children's Services!






Like father, like son. I'm blaming this one on Wyatt!!

FFF:Theme Best Foto of 2008


How do I choose?? I picked this one because it always makes me laugh. All that is missing is the cowboy hat...and clothes of course!!

Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Looking Back-2008-A Year in Review (the most time consuming post ever)

What a great year-2008 was the first full year that Collin was home so we can look back a full year and see what he was doing-lots of firsts. Here are some of my favorite pics from each month of 2008.

JANUARY

Collin's 1st Haircut



Collin's 1st Birthday






Collin's 1st Snow




FEBRUARY

This was the start of Collin really getting into things and making a mess!!







MARCH

Our Final Adoption Hearing-Just a formality but still a happy day!!







APRIL

Look at those teeth!



Spring has Sprung!




Breakfast with Meme



MAY

Collin would only take naps in his stroller.



Playing with Mallory-who we miss very much!!




Collin's favorite outside toy-the sand and water table. I had to knock an old man over to get it but it was worth it!




JUNE-Trip to New York to see Collin's foster father from Guatemala and fun at the pool.









JULY

Collin started walking, went to his first police picnic & enjoyed his first 4th of July.







AUGUST- Family vacation to Jamaica, 1st leaves of the season, Collin's love for the cowboy hat is born.







SEPTEMBER-We started working on the potty, enjoyed the zoo pretty often and we celebrated Collin's 1st Homecoming Anniversary at Chik-fil-A.







OCTOBER-Halloween,Guatoberfest in Myrtle Beach & Collin becomes a full fledged Buckeyes fan!!







NOVEMBER-Thanksgiving and we find the Dublin Play Gym for some warm indoor fun! Did I mention we miss Mallory!!







DECEMBER-Christmas Fun! You have seen all of that!

Guatoberfest Cruise 2009

My soapbox about the Advent Conspiracy

I came across this video on another blog. I have to admit I only looked at it for entertainment value. I assumed with a title like that, it had to be some wacko conspiracy theory and who doesn't need a good laugh. Suprisingly enough it really touched me and made me think. It didn't grab my interest because of it's religious value, because that's not really my thing. I am not the type of person that flaunts religion or believes in pushing your beliefs onto others. It touched me because of it's human value and because it shows me how quickly I forget.

When we were in Guatemala it was truly a life changing experience for a myriad of reasons, only one of which was bringing home a baby! We saw poverty that we could never imagine in this country. I remember thinking when I was there that despite all of the stress of the situation, I was more at peace than I had ever felt in my life. Among other things, there was no pressure to have more...there was nothing to have. People just lived their lives. Families worked together, lived together in cramped housing-if they had a roof over their heads at all-and they were happy! We were forced to enjoy eachother without our "creature comforts" and I loved it. I now remember hoping that once we got home, I would never lose that idea that we don't really need much at all. I realized our society makes us think we need more but we really don't. And after watching the video it makes me realize that I have failed miserably.


I had made up my mind that in order to honor my new found attitude and our sons heritage, we would sponsor a Guatemalan family every year so that they could have food and heat and their children could go to school-things we take for granted on a daily basis. For some reason I can never seem to find the money to do that- BUT- I can find the money to buy coffee every day, sometimes several times a day, Collin will see a room full of gifts on Christmas morning, I can go out to eat, I can do whatever I want for the most part. My priorities have gone right back to where they were before I experienced Guatemala and it makes me sad. That is the reason that I am posting the video in a permenant spot on the blog, so that I am constantly reminded, not only during Christmas but all year to give PRESENCE to my friends and family not PRESENTS and to give back to something that I feel very strongly about. I don't write this to push Guatemalan charity or any charity but to encourage anyone reading this to slow down and take a look at your life and see what means the most to you and see where it takes you.

Advent Conspiracy