Friday, February 12, 2010

FFF-Love is...

Just in time for Valentines Day this weeks theme for Favorite Foto Friday is Love is...

Where to begin?? I can only speak for me and so for me love is...

This man...my husband. As much as we can drive each other crazy, we "get" each other and that is a lot to ask in a marriage. He makes me laugh, he pisses me off, he makes me laugh some more, I count on him, I know he's got my back, he frustrates me, he makes me smile, he makes me happy, he is a fantastic partner in life and an even better partner in crime (and I don't mean the work kind-lol).He's the best dad ever-and I mean EVER! He's a great provider for his family, he's my best friend and I'm so glad I have him! Oh, did I mention he's incredibly handsome and buff?? ;o)







Love is...my family and my friends that I consider family. I am lucky to be surrounded by great people that I love. Some I was born with and others I have picked up along the way in this journey of life. I would do anything for my family. Sometimes I don't like them but I will always love them unconditionally. I have memories to last a life time of fun times, laughs and more laughs. We've seen new sights together, tried new things, done the same old things over and over, travelled, stayed home, made each other mad, made up, been through rough times and made it through. We have waited patiently, waited impatiently, been on adventures, helped each other out sometimes when we didn't even know it.







And of course, last but not least, love is...my little man, my buddy, my little pumpkin angel. As much as I hate to say it, "they" were right. You will never understand how much your parents love you until you have a child of your own. Before Collin, I had no idea that such a love existed in my heart, but it does and he showed me that. He continues to show me everyday! He constantly amazes me with his intelligence, talent, his sense of humor, his heart and what an amazing gift he is. He has helped me grow and change in ways that wouldn't be possible without him. I have become less selfish and self centered-who has time with a 3 year old wild man zooming around the house!! He has helped me lose my mind-which I would actually like to find again if possible!He has helped me realize what is truly important to me in life and to try to be a better person so I can be a good example for him.





The love of a mother and child is like no other love. It is felt in a deep space of your being. That love can light up your worst day and put a smile on your face with just a thought. It is completely selfless yet selfish at the same time. The knowing that a little helpless human being relies completely on you. You are responsible to shape and mold that little person until they can make it on their own. It is a need that never ends, no matter how much they want to be their own person. He will always know that he can count on Mama no matter what. You get to be number one to someone forever. What more could you ask for??





And that, my friends, is my version of LOVE!! Happy Valentines Day and click here to check out what our friends think of love~

Guatoberfest Cruise 2009

My soapbox about the Advent Conspiracy

I came across this video on another blog. I have to admit I only looked at it for entertainment value. I assumed with a title like that, it had to be some wacko conspiracy theory and who doesn't need a good laugh. Suprisingly enough it really touched me and made me think. It didn't grab my interest because of it's religious value, because that's not really my thing. I am not the type of person that flaunts religion or believes in pushing your beliefs onto others. It touched me because of it's human value and because it shows me how quickly I forget.

When we were in Guatemala it was truly a life changing experience for a myriad of reasons, only one of which was bringing home a baby! We saw poverty that we could never imagine in this country. I remember thinking when I was there that despite all of the stress of the situation, I was more at peace than I had ever felt in my life. Among other things, there was no pressure to have more...there was nothing to have. People just lived their lives. Families worked together, lived together in cramped housing-if they had a roof over their heads at all-and they were happy! We were forced to enjoy eachother without our "creature comforts" and I loved it. I now remember hoping that once we got home, I would never lose that idea that we don't really need much at all. I realized our society makes us think we need more but we really don't. And after watching the video it makes me realize that I have failed miserably.


I had made up my mind that in order to honor my new found attitude and our sons heritage, we would sponsor a Guatemalan family every year so that they could have food and heat and their children could go to school-things we take for granted on a daily basis. For some reason I can never seem to find the money to do that- BUT- I can find the money to buy coffee every day, sometimes several times a day, Collin will see a room full of gifts on Christmas morning, I can go out to eat, I can do whatever I want for the most part. My priorities have gone right back to where they were before I experienced Guatemala and it makes me sad. That is the reason that I am posting the video in a permenant spot on the blog, so that I am constantly reminded, not only during Christmas but all year to give PRESENCE to my friends and family not PRESENTS and to give back to something that I feel very strongly about. I don't write this to push Guatemalan charity or any charity but to encourage anyone reading this to slow down and take a look at your life and see what means the most to you and see where it takes you.

Advent Conspiracy