Wednesday, June 20, 2007

We received an e-mail today from Dusty, our coordinator, finally answering my question about Family Court. I guess I need to be more specific or maybe more annoying. I was concerned because we have not received an update that we are out of Family Court. I have heard rumors that there has been a shake up with the judges and cases were really getting backed up-to the tune of 14 weeks! We have been in family court for 10 weeks as far as we know. Dusty stated that Raphael, our attorney, is notorious for not picking up Family Court approvals until pre-approval has been received. She seems to think this is PROBABLY the case but can't tell us for sure. She said she would try to get more information. Since entering PGN means it's time to pay the lawyer again, I'm sure we will get an update ASAP. Hopefully by next week we will hear that we are in PGN which means we are out of Family Court and we just weren't updated, which is fine with me. As long as we are moving forward and not sitting still, I will be happy. Our attorney has a pretty good track record as far as quick outs in PGN so we will keep our fingers crossed. I am trying to take Bryan's advise and look at each passing day as one day closer to Collin coming home rather than one more day away from him. What a smart brother he is!! =*)
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My soapbox about the Advent Conspiracy

I came across this video on another blog. I have to admit I only looked at it for entertainment value. I assumed with a title like that, it had to be some wacko conspiracy theory and who doesn't need a good laugh. Suprisingly enough it really touched me and made me think. It didn't grab my interest because of it's religious value, because that's not really my thing. I am not the type of person that flaunts religion or believes in pushing your beliefs onto others. It touched me because of it's human value and because it shows me how quickly I forget.

When we were in Guatemala it was truly a life changing experience for a myriad of reasons, only one of which was bringing home a baby! We saw poverty that we could never imagine in this country. I remember thinking when I was there that despite all of the stress of the situation, I was more at peace than I had ever felt in my life. Among other things, there was no pressure to have more...there was nothing to have. People just lived their lives. Families worked together, lived together in cramped housing-if they had a roof over their heads at all-and they were happy! We were forced to enjoy eachother without our "creature comforts" and I loved it. I now remember hoping that once we got home, I would never lose that idea that we don't really need much at all. I realized our society makes us think we need more but we really don't. And after watching the video it makes me realize that I have failed miserably.


I had made up my mind that in order to honor my new found attitude and our sons heritage, we would sponsor a Guatemalan family every year so that they could have food and heat and their children could go to school-things we take for granted on a daily basis. For some reason I can never seem to find the money to do that- BUT- I can find the money to buy coffee every day, sometimes several times a day, Collin will see a room full of gifts on Christmas morning, I can go out to eat, I can do whatever I want for the most part. My priorities have gone right back to where they were before I experienced Guatemala and it makes me sad. That is the reason that I am posting the video in a permenant spot on the blog, so that I am constantly reminded, not only during Christmas but all year to give PRESENCE to my friends and family not PRESENTS and to give back to something that I feel very strongly about. I don't write this to push Guatemalan charity or any charity but to encourage anyone reading this to slow down and take a look at your life and see what means the most to you and see where it takes you.

Advent Conspiracy